Wednesday, March 08, 2006

Life in Full Circle

Just a few months ago I met my school crush working in the same company as mine. I thought it’s a mere co-incidence that this happened. But right after 3-4 months after I met my school crush I met my college crush working in my company. I felt as if all my school and college days came right before my eyes and stood still mocking at me to check how much I am transformed.

I was a silent admirer of my crushes. I never expressed what I felt for them. That was simply because whenever I was in front of them I used to feel that weakness in the knees and my face was masked with "Shy". Things that were common in both were that they were very good dancers, they knew how to steal the show and smart.

But when I met them at my work place, I never knew where all that weakness in the knees and shy went off. It was all about a Confidant eye contact with the firm handshake.

There is nothing in this world that stands still be it difficult situations or very happy situations. Everything has to change. We can overcome anything and everything in life. Only thing is it takes time.

17 comments:

DENZIL said...

I must say you are very lucky to have both your school crush and college crushes working in the same company... ;-)

Well jokes apart... The point which you have brought out is a good one... It has happened with me too... When we have a crush on someone... we feel weak in the knees ...words fail to come out of the mouth... we blush... But as TIME passes ... everything changes... And I guess Call Center also plays a role in transforming you... I must confess that my confidence increased manifolds after I joined a call center... I became more confident... I tranformed from an introvert to an easy going guy...

And tell you what??? Its very difficult to forget your college crush... Unless she is engaged to someone else...

coolvir said...

Good yaar....
Me always have crushes on celebrities but am still waiting to meet them one day:)

White Forest said...

@Denzil - But it really doesnt make any difference if they are working in the same co or were working some where else ....but waht made me really surprised is that why shud i have met both in the same co ? ....hmm thats why i feel "Life is in Full Circle"...you get to meet people whom you had never expected to meet ...But its always good see/analyze life backwards...its thrilling and makes me feel I am grown up and grown out of unwanted things in life :)


@Coolvir - hmm really cool...you are in mumbai itself..so lot of chances to meet your celebrity chrushes :)

Anurag Hitchcock said...

wonder why i never meet my old crushes?? considering i have umpteen??
nice blog.. saw u in balajis comment sheet and came here.. nice post .. :)

Anil The Great said...

rathna :

life changes and so are your attitude towards people whom you see in life previosuly.

its good, we change, coz when we change, the life starts to make some meaning and
give us an elixer to live. life is very beautiful if we start understanding the
nuances of it.

nice to know how things have changed for you.

-ATG

White Forest said...

@Anil - Thats very true...I agree :)

@Anurag - Thanks :)

Shiv Shankar said...

Hmmm... Crushes ..die hard especially teenage crushes .

White Forest said...

yeah...very true...but the perspectives definitely change ....

khelnayak said...

wah wah...see how much you changed following my interaction with you. :d

Nicely written! Liked the usage of words. N aha...you are becoming quite popular here. :)

Neha said...

if i meet my crushes now, infact i think i'd like to do tht.. i men meet them so tth i cud just b normal and not b at a loss for words.. n not b so awestruck by them..lol.. we grow up, we change.. yet the memories remain.

White Forest said...

@ khelnayak - Let me give you a chance to take credit ;) :D

N yeah ...Thanks a lot :)

@neha - I Hope you meet your crushes soon :)

Aizwaikcha said...

Nothing is unchanged except the change itself.
This is Life.
True, everything written in your post is true.

Shikha said...

Most people have soft corner for their crushes for a lonng time..good gor you,girl:)

rebel_on_loose said...

:) Hmmmm so u got 2 of ur crushes at work hun! That's pretty interesting...but sounds like u've lost the crush u had for them once....
"We can overcome anything and everything in life. Only thing is it takes time."
I liked this. :)

White Forest said...

@ Aizwaikcha - Thanks :)
"Nothing is unchanged except the change itself." good line :)

@Shikha - I agree :)

@ rebel_on_loose - I ve overcome the crush part of it...coz i dont feel much for them...but as Shikha said...i do have soft corner for them :D

Ekta said...

hah!
Well its quite some coincidence that both your crushes are with you in the same company!
So maybe now you can get to know them better!

White Forest said...

@ Ekta - But i dont get a chance to meet them often as they work in a different location...it was just a mere co-incidence that we happen to meet :)